Tuesday, June 9, 2026
A Week in DC and Another Close One
Sunday, May 31, 2026
One Damn Second
Cross country and track are strange sports. I love them both, although at a certain level they're designed to break your heart.
At Lee University yesterday evening, JP ran in the fist of two heats of the mile. It's not a distance he has raced often because, in high school meets, the 1,600 is a much more common race. As far as races go, the mile is 9.334 meters longer than the 1,600. Actually, that's something I didn't know until this weekend.
JP's goal was 4:19, which he felt was fast but doable. His thought was that running a 4:19 would qualify him for New Balance Nationals in Philadelphia in late June.
JP left the starting line running a fast pace and settle in behind the leaders, in third and, later, fourth place. I was standing not he far side of the track, so I could encourage him at roughly the 200 meter mark of each lap. He looked good and, by lap three, was doing a good job of staying connected with the lead pack of three runners.
The same was true on the final lap, although JP appeared to tire ever so slightly in the last 100 meters. A runner nipped him at the finish by less than .30 and took fourth place. He finished in 4:20:52, so very close to running a sub-4:20, which was hi goal.
Afterwards, when he realized he had just missed a sub-4:20, JP was disconsolate. I was on the infield with him and tried my best to console him. He knew he had missed by a second, probably less, and there wasn't anything I could say that really mattered. Not in the moment, anyway. I hurt for him, terribly, because he was so disappointed.
He's worked so hard to get back to where he was - and where he expected to be - before he was injured. And he's made it, almost. JP ran a PR in the mile yesterday, just as he did in the 800 the day before. That's something, for sure. He continues to improve, to run faster. Still, it wasn't quite good enough, at least not in his mind.
Less than one damn second off. So close.
Before JP ran his cool down, he was talking to one of the McCallie runners, a senior. The McCallie runner was talking about how tough the conditions were for the race. Hotter and more humid than expected, with an annoying headwind on second 200 meters of each lap.
"No one ran their best today," he said, somewhat philosophically. "But, that's track."
Truer words have never been spoken.
That's track. Indeed.
JP and I talked about it later. I reminded him of the importance of keeping things in perspective, in track and in life. I also reminded him that God has a plan for him and for all of us. This is just part of it. I hope our conversation helped.
Later, I picked up takeout burgers and we ate dinner together while we watched Game 7 of the Spurs - Thunder in the Western Conference Finals. Honestly, those are the moments I will treasure when JP leaves for college in a little more than a year. Holed up in an unfamiliar town after a baseball game or race, eating dinner together, and just hanging out. The two of us.
Sometimes, like now, it seems to me that JP's entire childhood has passed me by in a few seconds.
Saturday, May 30, 2026
Some Can Whistle (Again)
As I write this, I'm sitting on the front porch of a quaint house in downtown Cleveland, Tennessee, a city that strangely enough, I've never visited in my 50 + years of living in Tennessee.
Why I am here? That's a difficult question to answer, existentially.
JP is running in a track meet at Lee University this weekend. I was able to find an Airbnb a few short blocks away from campus and a five minute drive from the track. It's a quite a nice, older neighborhood, tucked away away between downtown, historic Cleveland on one side and a series of strip malls on the other. A bit of an oasis, it seems to me. Some smaller, modest houses and a few larger, almost antebellum houses on Ocoee Street.
It's strange to me that I've never been to Cleveland, particularly since I have several fraternity brothers from here, a few of whom I was quite close to during college. Speaking of which, on a lark I decided to try to track down Greg Mooney, my little brother in the fraternity, as I drove into town late yesterday afternoon. I was successful and on the eve of his older daughter's wedding, we had a nice chat on the phone.
JP ran the second heat of the 800 last night. He finished 5th, I think, in a fast race, clocking a 1:55:02. That's another PR for JP by more than a second almost a sub-1:55. JP was pleased, I think, as he's beginning to feel like himself on the track again, which is nice. H runs the mile tonight, in about an hour and a half. I hope he has another good race.
To close out May and "Larry McMurtry Month" - self-designated - I just finished "Some Can Whistle" (1989), a sequel to "All My Friends Are Going to Be Strangers" (1972). Both of the novels are semi-autobiographical, particularly "Some Can Whistle," as the protagonist is a novelist and, later, a television producer, Danny Deck. Neither are particularly uplifting - actually, they're kind of bleak - but Larry McMurtry is one of my favorite writers and, as always, these two novels are well written a resonate with me.
What's really strange, though, is I had a fairly vivid recollection of reading "All My Friends Are Going to Be Strangers," and Danny Deck as a young man is a character who always stayed with me. The scene at the end, when he drowned the manuscript of his second novel in the Rio Grand, was a memorable one, and something I had never forgotten.
When I picked out "Some Can Whistle" from the bookcase in my office upstairs at home, I assumed it was a book I had purchased sone ago but never read. It wasn't until I opened it and turned a few pages that I saw I had finished reading it - the first time - on February 4, 1993, more than 33 years ago. I would have been in my last year of all school in Knoxville when I originally read it.
What's really strange and, honestly, a little troubling, is that I had absolutely no independent recollection reading "Some Can Whistle" the first time. When I re-read it, nothing at all was familiar to me. Not the story, the characters, the plot, or the ending. Nothing. Still, I wouldn't have dated it and put my name in it in February of 1993 if I hadn't read it. Weird.
Maybe it hit me differently now because I am older and Danny Deck in "Some Can Whistle" is closer to my age. Danny Deck in "All My Friends Are Going to Be Strangers" was closer to my age, then, when I read it for the first time.
It reminded me, too, that I read fiction not necessarily to remember what I have read, because often times that fades. I can't recall the details of "Cold Mountain" (Charles Frazier) or "American Pastoral" (Phillip Roth), although I loved both of those books. I read fiction because I enjoy it - in the moment - and simply for the love of reading. That's the takeaway for me, I think.
Now, it's off to the track to watch JP run.
Tuesday, May 12, 2026
Going to State!
Sunday, May 10, 2026
Old Friends in the Bluegrass State
Saturday, May 2, 2026
Another One Bites the Dust
Wednesday, April 29, 2026
The Spring of My Discontent
Sometimes, when I don't write as often, I think it's because I'm unhappy or discontented. Other times, it's because I'm busy. Or, maybe, I'm taking the wonder of life for granted. I guess it could be some combination of all three.
Although I've run at least three miles or walked at least 30 minutes or more almost every day this month, I've had a difficult time getting any traction with my running this year. I had planned to run long more often or, at least, to run more mileage. Rather, I've found myself running three miles on most days that I run with a longer run on fairly rare occasions at Shelby Bottoms. Twice I've bonked while trying to run my 5-mile loop around Elmington Park and back. My mile pace has been good during my runs but the distance hasn't been there. Maybe I'm getting old.
As I've written before, it's been a bit of lost spring athletic season for the boys. JP's injury has slowed him down, literally, on the track. After missing the early track meets, he's been slower than he wanted or expected in the 800 and 1,600 at the meets in which he has run. Fortunately, he's been running pain-free, which is what we want. As his mileage has picked up, I think he's feeling more comfortable running. Hopefully, his times will pick up a bit at the MBA Senior Day track meet this afternoon and at the Regional Meet next week. I would love for him to qualify individually for an event or two at the State Meet but I think that's going to be a tall task for him.
Joe's school baseball season was, well, meh. He wasn't able to get any significant playing time on the infield. He began batting higher in the order late in the season, as he began hitting better. Maybe he can carry that over to the travel baseball season. Joe pitched a couple of games and did relatively well, although I'd like him to throw harder. Still, no windup or curve ball. I'm going to try to get him with a good hitting/pitching coach as school winds down.
Basketball has been a mixed bag, too. Last Sunday, for example, the Stars Gold played at Lebanon High School. Joe's squad rallied late, as they tend to do, but lost a close game to Chapel Hill. The Bucket Squad closed the game, as Joe, Cole ("Zeebo"), and Pike played most of the last 10 minutes of the game. Joe hit a big 3-pointer late but missed the front end of a 1-and-1, which hurt. I was surprised, as was he, because he's been knocking down free throws as of late.
Joe doesn't move particularly well laterally, so he's had a tough time staying in front of the man he guards, at times. His ball handling limitations have been apparent, too, as his team has begun to play against quicker and more athletic players. He can correct that somewhat, I think, if he works at it. His 3-point shot is still inconsistent, although he can improve there, too. He needs to become a knockdown 3-point shooter if he's going to continue to play in the coming years.
Work is, well, work. Draining. Busy as hell with clients and office stuff. On the one hand, my practice is thriving. Happy clients for the most part. Good reviews. New clients coming in and I'm able to be selective, as I refer cases out I don't want to handle for one reason or another. On the other hand, it's a lot. That's just the nature of the beast.
Speaking of work, time to get going.






