Sunday, June 29, 2025

The Sun Sets on the Bunganut Pig

Yesterday afternoon, I wondered up to the front of the office while I was on a call.  As I often do, even at work, I was talking to a client on my cell phone with my AirPods in, which allows me the freedom to roam a bit during a long call.  I like that because it keeps me from being stuck behind my desk all day.  

During my call, I saw a headline in the Williamson Herald (in our magazine rack) that after 38 + years, the Bunganut Pig closed last week.  That hit me hard.  

The Pig, as everyone called it, was the oldest restaurant/bar in Franklin.  Tucked away in the basement of Carter's Court for almost three decades before it expended, the Bunganut Pig had a very "Cheers-like" quality to it, in large part because you had to walk down stairs to get to it and their were no windows.  It was a true hole-in-the-wall known only to locals in the days before tourists traipsed through downtown Franklin every weekend.

My dear friend, Ed Silva, was in the Pig at the beginning as an investor, although in the early days it was called the General's Retreat and, at some point, the Rebel's Roost, appropriate names given that it's located across from the Carter House and in the middle of the battlefield for the Battle of Franklin.  You almost had to know where the Pig was to find it and that was kind of what made it special, at least to me.

The point, of course, is that the Bunganut Pig was "old Franklin," something that doesn't really exist any longer.  One need look no further than a few blocks down Columbia Avenue toward downtown Franklin, and our office, to see all of the old commercial buildings - hardware store, bakery, etc. - being torn down as developers are building 2 - 3 million dollar condominiums in a new development, most of which are pre-sold.  It's crazy.  

Part of the reason the Bunganut Pig is so special to me is that after my partner, Chas Morton, joined our law firm, we moved our office to Carter's Court, above and behind the Bunganut Pig.  We were there for five years, from roughly 2001 - 2006, before we bought and renovated the building we're in now directly across from the Courthouse.  

In fact, I have a newspaper clipping from the Review Appeal, framed, on the wall at work with a photo of Chas, Mark, and me in our office at Carter's Court, right after we moved in there.  The theme of the piece, probably written by Mindy Tate, is about "three local boys starting a law firm together."  Moving into our office in Carter's Court marked the end of Puryear & Newman and the beginning of Puryear, Newman & Morton.  25 years later, the rest is history, as they say.

In the five years we were there, our practices grew as we added lawyers and got busier and busier.  We expanded multiple times until, at the end, we had the entire top floor of the back building and part of the bottom floor, as well.  I have many fond memories of that office and our time there.  

A huge snowball fight with the Eric and Ted Boozer's group, whose office was directly below us.  Diane Livingston and Lee Dreyer - God rest both of their souls - whose office, later, was directly below us.  Hosting our annual Pigskin Picks Open House - now defunct, sadly - before football season every year.  At one memorable Pigskin Picks party, we played cornhole on the brick walkway outside the office late into the night.  I drove Mark home, as I recall, and his wife, Elizabeth, and I played ping pong in his garage before I drove home to Nashville.

Blake Sempkowski ("Super Blake"), the first attorney we hired, worked in that office, as did Rachel Harmon.  Raven Hardison.  Lisa Johnson.  Diane Radesovich.  Traci Carter.  Deb Rubenstein.  And others whose names I can't recall.

More work days than not, I walked downstairs from my office and had lunch at the Bunganut Pig by myself.  I checked in with (Ohio State) Eddie or the owner, then, Marty, sat down with latest issue of the Nashville Scene, and ordered a Caesar salad with blackened salmon.  Always the same order, as I a creature of habit if nothing else.  

In those days, Jude used to say we practiced "Pig Law," and we did, in a way, as all of our partners' meetings were held at the big over a beer or two after work.  I loved our office and its proximity to the Pig, although Ed Silva always made fun of me and suggested we needed a bigger, better office.  He wasn't wrong, I guess, which is why we subsequently bought the building we've been in for almost 20 years.  

In those days, before Franklin and Spring Hill had grown so much and added restaurants, the Bunganut Pig was almost the only game in town or, the only game in downtown (Franklin).  The Pig had a regular lunch crowd.  At 4:30 p.m. or so, all of the Franklin and Williamson Country politicos stopped in for a drink or two, always sitting at the long table just outside the tiny bar and the half glass divider that separated it from the rest of the restaurant.  There was a good dinner crowd.  Then, after that, the music crowd came in.  

There was a small stage in the back corner of the restaurant where bands played.  My law partner's wife, Christa, and her '80's band played there often, as did Neil Diamond impersonator, Denny Diamond.  To my recollection, there really wasn't anywhere else to hear live music in or near downtown Franklin, except maybe Kimbro's Picking Parlor.  The music at the Pig was a real thing for a long time.

For years, too, smoking was allowed at the Pig.  As you might imagine, in a basement restaurant/bar with no windows, the smoke lingered . . . everywhere.  In fact, the girls in our office rarely went to the Pig, even for lunch, because when you left, all of your clothes smelled like cigarette smoke. 

I used to joke and say that the Bunganut Pig was the den of iniquity because it was open late and a lot of things happened inside, and in the parking lot, that led clients to me in divorce cases.  I'll leave it at that.  

For many years, my friend, Eddie, worked there, day and night.  Ohio State Eddie.  He was at a point in his life, I think, where he was trying to figure things out.  As often happens in the restaurant business, he got stuck in one place for longer than he planned.  When Eddie finally left the Pig, the atmosphere there changed and not necessarily for the better.    

Mark and Amy Goodson bought the Bunganut Pig close to 20 years ago, right about the time we moved into the building we bought and renovated in Third Avenue South, across from the Courthouse, where our office is currently located.  Mark, an Air Force veteran and Wharton School of Business graduate (University of Pennsylvania) graduate, left a high stress, high paying job in health care with a plan to run the Bunganut Pig as a family business.

Mark saw real potential in the Pig and he quickly set about modernizing it.  First, he eliminated smoking, which was long overdue.  Next, he worked a deal with the landlord, Fernando Santisteban, and opened up a patio outside, complete with tables, cornhole sets, and a small stage for live music.  He also rented the space directly above the Pig - where the Heiress (a hair salon) had been for the entirety of my youth - and put in a pool table, flat screen televisions, and new tables.  He even leased a small space next door and opened up a larger bar, also long overdue as the Pig's original bar was tiny.  

In short, Mark and Amy Goodson turned the Bunganut Pig into a much larger, attractive, versatile Franklin bar/restaurant with more to offer its patron.  In my view, the Pig under Mark and Amy retained some of its old school charm while, seemingly overnight, morphing in to a modern eatery.  Mark ran it much more professionally and like a real business than did Marty, the previous owner.  

After five or six years, Mark and Amy decided to move to Florida.  In 2016, they sold the Bunganut Pig to Mark Rindermann, who quickly ran it straight into the ground.  The service declined precipitously, the quality of the food fell, and all of the great work that Mark and Amy put into modernizing the Pig was wasted.  Rindermann completely closed the downstairs, cut staff, and just let the once proud eatery fall into a state of disrepair.

Rindermann ignominiously closed the Pig, with no notice, on June 23, 2025.  He set up a GoFundMe page, which is maybe the most embarrassing part of his tenure as owner of the Pig.  As of this morning, he had raised a paltry $813 dollars to "save the restaurant."  Mark Rindermann had no business running the Bunganut Pig, or any other restaurant for that matter.

In the end, Mark and Amy Goodson probably got out at the right time.  Since they sold the Pig, downtown Franklin and Spring Hill have exploded in growth.  New bars and restaurants and bars are everywhere, as a result of which competition for customer is fierce.  

Still, I'll remember the Bunganut Pig fondly.  I'll especially remember the five years when Mark, Chas, and I practiced "Pig law" there.


Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Empty Nesters

Empty nesters if just for a few days.  

That's what Jude and I are with Joe at Woodberry Forest Sports Camp and JP in Boulder, CO.  Empty nesters.  We're getting the barest glimpse of what life is like for so many of my friends, like Mark & Elizabeth (Puryear), Doug and Sally (Brown), all with children out of college and working.  We're a long way from those days.

Last night, Jude and I met our friends, Russ and Suzanna (Allen) for dinner at The Henry.  Nice meal and even better conversation.  A lifetime ago, I wrote a piece in this space, "Friends that Fit," describing our family's relationship with the Allen family.  We've vacationed together, shared meals together, and our boys (JP and Cooper) played sports together.  Now, Ella is halfway through Wake Forest and works at my office on Fridays.  Cooper will be a senior at MBA and JP a junior.  Joe will be start 7th grade at MBA next year.

We don't see each other nearly as much as we did when the boys were younger and Russ (basketball) and I (baseball) were coaching them in sports.  However, that makes it all the more special when we are able to steal a night to go to dinner, like last night.  For Jude and me, Russ and Suzanna will forever be "friends that fit," and our friendship will remind me of a time in our lives when we were together virtually every weekend on a basketball court or baseball field somewhere in town.  I miss those days.

Last night, I enjoyed showing Russ and Suzanna the Woodberry Forest Sports Camp website, along with the blog we anxiously check every morning for an update on the previous days' activities and to see how Joe's "Alabama" team performed in their two or three games.  Yesterday, they lost a heartbreaker in team handball, 9-8.  They've won several contests that way, too, and by my estimation, his squad is slightly over  .500 so far, maybe a little better. 

I talked to JP on my drive home last night.  He and Sam ran 10 miles yesterday on a bike trail in Boulder, CO.  It was 52 degrees there when he woke up yesterday and 72 degrees when we talked at 4:00 p.m. (MST).  Gorgeous.  Meanwhile, it was 97 degrees in Nashville and one of our air conditioning units went out at work.  Am I envious?  You bet your ass I am.

In classic high school/college road trip fashion, JP slept on an air mattress that deflated halfway through the night.  Sam's truck wouldn't start yesterday morning, so he rode his bicycle into town to get "starter fluid," whatever that is.  Predictably, his truck still wouldn't start, so the he had his truck towed into Firestone.  JP and Sam walked a mile into town to see the campus at Colorado University?  Why didn't they Uber?  Only they know the answer to that question.

In the end, JP and Sam will figure it out.  Joe is in the process of figuring it out at Woodberry Forest Sports Camp.  Figure what out, you ask?  Everything, I guess.  How to be on your own.  Life.  All of it, I guess.

And that's really the point of all of this, isn't it?  For Jude and me to put our boys in a position - with safety nets, some visible and some invisible - of where they have to begin to learn to figure it out, all on their own.  

It's a modified version of "the Escape Game," except what the JP and Joe are escaping from is childhood.  That's a little bit sad to a nostalgia old dad like me but absolutely necessary, too.  They're growing up and, if we do it right, they will need us less and less and time marches on.  Also sad but also absolutely necessary. 



(Bongo Java)


Sunday, June 22, 2025

Rocky Mountain High

This morning at 6:15 a.m., I hugged JP before he got into Jude's Honda Pilot so she could take him to the airpot.  He's flying to Boulder, CO, to spend eight days with a group of college runners training and running at altitude.

JP will be staying in an Airbnb provided by my friend, Rob Trumble, the father of Samuel Trumble ('25), JP's cross country and track teammate at MBA who graduated last year.  Rob rented the Airbnb so Samuel and some of his KU teammates could train in Boulder, CO, for part of the summer.  Another of JP's teammates from the 2025 MBA cross country and track team who will be there is Mitchell Chaffin ('25).  Mitchell is running at Centre College in Danville, KY.  

Samuel and Mitchell were co-captains of MBA's cross country team last year, the first in school history to qualify for NXN (Nike Cross Country Nationals) in Portland, OR.  As I've written here before, Samuel and Mitchell were consummate leaders who quickly ascertained that JP and his classmate, Gabe Guillamondegui, were legitimate runners who would contribute to the varsity cross country team in a big way as freshman.  They encouraged JP and Gabe all season long to be the best runners they could be.  The rest, as they say, is history, and the MBA cross country team had a historic season in 2024.  

For obvious reasons, Jude and I were trepidatious, at first, when JP mentioned that he might like to go to Boulder, CO, to train with Samuel this summer.  We talked about it at length and ultimately decided it would be good for him to go.  JP is 17, has a good head on his shoulders, almost always makes the right decisions, and has earned our trust.  

I've had several conversations with him about how important it is to make the right decisions while he is in Boulder, CO.  I've told him it's likely he will see things, and perhaps be around things, that he's never seen before, at least no close up.  Alcohol.  Possibly (probably) marijuana, which is legal in Colorado, of course.  I reminded him that being in the wrong place at the wrong time can have serious implications for his future, as he begins applying to college.  Maybe I'm worrying about that kind of thing too much.  Maybe I'm not.  Either way, I'm confident JP will make the right decisions, probably more so that I did at his age. 

I think it might be one of the best weeks of JP's life to date.  Rob indicated that Samuel and Mitchell already have trained with college runners from KU, Colorado, Syracuse, Georgetown, and more.  The boys have been swimming, hiking, and fishing, too, which JP will love.  It will be eye opening, I think, for JP to be around college runners all week.  To see how they train, how hard they work, how they talk and think about running, and their overall all approach to running.  

I must admit, thought, that it's a little surreal for me.  My protege - as I used to call him while we watched baseball or basketball games on television, or went for a run together - on his first road trip.  A road trip that involves him flying across the country at the age of 17 to spend a week, running, with college athletes.  I mean, wow.  

One day I'm rolling him through the neighborhood in the Baby Jogger City Elite stroller, the Thomas the Train musical caboose is his hands as he pushes the button to play music over an over again, looking up at me through the clark plastic window in the top of the cover, grinning the whole time.  The next day, or so it seems, he's flying to Boulder, CO, for a week of running (and playing) with a group of college boys.  

Godspeed, JP.  Have the time of your life.




Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Once a Runner

This week, JP is interning at Lewis Thomasson, a law downtown law firm, through an internship program at MBA.  Because it's such a small world and my life seems to be a series concentric circles, the managing partner at Lewis Thomasson is Lisa Ramsay Cole, my longtime friend.  

When I walked into the George C. Taylor College of Law on UT's campus for the first time - this would have been the fall of 1990 - I was a bit nervous and unsure of myself.  The first person I met that morning was a classmate who would become my dear friend, Lisa Cole, from MacKenzie, Tennessee, by way of Bethel College.  We stayed close throughout our three years together in law school and in the years immediately after, as embarked on our legal careers.  

I think it was Lisa (although it may have been Jim Price) that first called me "Newby," a law school nickname that several other picked up during our time together.  As I sip my coffee this morning, I'm smiling as I think of Lisa Cole, laughing at something I said, shaking her head, and saying "oh, Newby."  Lisa is one of the kindest people I know.  She's built a helluva career as a lawyer at Lewis Thomasson (formerly Lewis King).  

This week, JP has been getting up early to run, before going downtown for his internship.  It's a summer of running for him, as he prepares for the fall cross country season and what he hopes will be a successful campaign for the school, and for him.

This morning, as I left the house and was driving down Belmont Boulevard, I saw JP running toward me, finishing a six mile run.  He recognized my truck from a distance, waved his arms, then sprinted by with a strong finishing kick.  Seeing him stirred strong emotions in me.  Love.  Pride.  Admiration.   Nostalgia. 

Shirtless, his body glistening with sweat, running hard, I marveled at JP's youth and vitality.  I wanted to freeze that moment in my mind because it seemed important.  It still does, as I recall it now.  

There's not an ounce of fat on JP, of course, but his upper body is filling out.  He has an exercise routine does, religiously, every night, and he's been working out in the gym at MBA.  He's putting the time in and it shows.  I'm proud of him for that and for so may other things.  

I'm going to do my best to remember that moment this morning, when JP ran toward me, then by me.  He looked invincible.  My guess is that he felt that way, too.  I hope so, anyway.

 

Monday, June 16, 2025

Honors Night on the Hill

I never want to take for granted either of my boys' accomplishments.  So, I wanted to make sure I wrote a little something about Honors Night at MBA, while it was still relatively fresh in my mind.  The beginning of the summer has been relatively chaotic - okay, very chaotic - but it seems we're settling into a bit of a routine with Joe at Woodberry Forest Sports Camp for three weeks and JP on the cusp of traveling to Boulder, CO, to run and train with collegiate runners for a week.  Yikes!

A day or two before the 2025 class graduated, MBA hosted Honors Night.  Last year and this year, the weather has been nice so the event has been staged outside, underneath the trees, with folding chairs facing the stage down a slight decline that allows for a good site line for everyone.  I was among the first to arrive, so I selected good seats in the front of the middle section, for Jude and me.

As was the case last year, the mood was relaxed and a bit festive.  The relief the boys felt to have completed another year of rigorous study and competition was palpable.  Getting through exams was tough for JP, I know, particularly chemistry and algebra, all while preparing for the track and field state championships.  It's a lot for all of the boys.

There are so many awards.  It reminded me, as I watched, how fortunate we are for JP (and next year, Joe, too) to be attending MBA.  So many smart, accomplished boys all together in one place.  It's quite impressive.  Dr. Daughtrey did an excellent job of moving things along, as each academic department recognized outstanding students.  Awards were given, as well, to boys in a variety of non-academic pursuits - theatre, writing, athletics, leadership, etc.  

For his sophomore class, JP received the 3-sport athlete award for best athlete in his class.  He also was one of two boys in his class to receive a $1,000 scholarship.  This year, the best boy of the class award - for which he was one of three nominees - went to his friend, Caleb.  It was well earned, as Caleb played junior varsity basketball while singing in the outstanding MBA choir.  He's an incredibly talented singer and guitar player.  A great student, too.  

JP has worked so hard at MBA.  Academically, athletically, and on Honor Council.  He might be proudest, in fact, of his role on the Honor Council.  When he gets his school ring next year, he's going to have earned it, for sure.  




JP and cross country teammate, Jack McDaniel (2026), who is one of the best boys I know.  He and JP have been friends since their days together as toddlers at Children's House.  Jack received multiple academic awards.  The sky is the limit for him.


JP and cross country teammate, Brady (2025), who has accepted an appointment to West Point.  Such an impressive young man.  I expect big things from him. 


JP and cross country and track/field teammate, Jack Wallace (2025), who is running at Furman University.  Jack was the second runner in a row (Samuel Trumble in 2024) to win athlete of the year after rewriting the track/field record book and leading the Big Red to its first track/field state title since 2001.



Saturday, June 14, 2025

A Night in Charlottesville

In hopes of taking a minute to catch my breath, I decided to stay overnight, again, in Charlotte, VA, after I found an Airbnb I liked in the Belmont neighborhood.  A roomy basement apartment in the bottom of a large house.  Very cool neighborhood and walking distance to several restaurants.  

As luck would have it, though, I ended up spending all afternoon on the telephone with my paralegal, Julie, the office, and various clients.  Not a good afternoon.  I had to give bad news to a couple of clients and I parted ways with a couple of other clients.  One is being manipulated by her husband and didn't want to listen to me, which is unfortunate.  The other decided to represent himself, which very well may end up being unfortunate for him, as his wife's lawyer cannot ethically represent two parties.  Sometimes, that's the way it goes.  In truth, as busy as I am, it's probably a blessing in disguise.  

Because I skipped lunch, I decided to walk down for a drink and an early dinner.  I ended up at the bar at Mockingbird Restaurant.  I sat, I read the New Yorker on ma iPad, I had a drink, I ate, and I breathed.  Not bad, at last, after a whirlwind of a week.  Sometimes, it's a lot, you know?  I considered staying another tonight but I'm going to head back to Nashville because I don't want to drive all day Sunday and arrive late with no down time before work on Monday.

As it turns out, I'm glad I didn't go to Bonnaroo.  I saw an alert last night that due to rain and more inclement weather on the way, the rest of the festival (Friday night, Saturday, and Sunday) was canceled.  What a bummer.  That's a first, I think.  Maybe I'll get back there next year.  

I'm thinking about Joe this morning and wondering how his first day at Sports Camp went.  I hope he's making friends and having fun.  I've said more than one silent prayer for him over the past 24 hours.  I just want him to have a good time.  

Time to finish my coffee, head back to the Airbnb, pack, and get on the road.






Friday, June 13, 2025

Woodberry Forest and Saying Goodbye to Childhood

No man walks in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's not the same man.

Heraclitus


It's one of my favorite quotes.  As I sit her tonight, in a basement Airbnb in the Belmont neighborhood of Charlottesville, VA, listening to the Coldplay album, Parachutes, I am not sure if it applies to me or to Joe. 

As "Yellow" plays on my iPhone, I can't help but remember a weekend away with Jude 25 years ago this summer, in the Highlands, NC, when I played the album, and this song, over and over on my iPod.  We weren't married yet.  No children.  No house.  No iPhones.  Just a couple on a getaway weekend to the mountains in North Carolina, listening to a relatively new band with a hit album.  

Reprising my role from four years ago with JP, today I dropped Joe off at Woodberry Forest Sports Camp, an hour north of Charlottesville, VA.  He will be there for three weeks.  On his own, trying to figure out . . . well, a lot of things.  Where he fits with his group of boys.  What it's like to be away from home for so long.  What kind of an athlete he is.  How to make friends, in a relatively short period of time, with a group of boys he has never met before today.  

Is he ready?  Honestly, I do not know.  I feel strongly, though, that Joe needs this.  He really does.  

It's so hard being the youngest in the family or so it seems to me.  Others do things for you.  You are the youngest, so you are treated differently.  Always, there is someone looking over your shoulder, helping you, instructing you, correcting you.  Steering you in the right direction, or at least trying to do so.  It must be hard to forge your own identity as the youngest in the family.

As I write this, I am hesitant to look back and see what I wrote about JP when I dropped him off at Woodberry Forest for Sports Camp, four or five years ago.  In my memory, it seems like JP was more ready to be on his own for three weeks than Joe was when I walked off the football field today and left him with his group of boys (teammates), Alabama.  It's strange to feel that way, since Joe has slept away at Camp Widjiwagan for several years and, in contrast, JP had never been to a week long sleep away camp before his three weeks at Woodberry Forest. 

They are such different boys in so many ways.  Why is it that I find it so hard, sometimes, to realize that?  Same parents, different boys.  Very different personalities.  Different approaches to life.  And that is absolutely fine.  

Woodberry Forest was a transformative experience for JP, or so it seems to me in my mind's eye.  I want it the be the same for Joe.  I want him to develop renewed confidence in himself and, more importantly, a sense of independence.  I want him to begin to believe in his ability to survive, and thrive, without Jude, JP, or me looking over his shoulder, correcting him or guiding him every step of the way.  I want him to begin to figure it all out.  

Middle School at USN is over.  Hell, the protective cocoon that USN provided is gone.  This fall, Joe will walk into the crucible of seventh grade at Montgomery Bell Academy.  As my friend, John Rowland, said, "MBA is a competition every day.  Academically, athletically, and socially.  Is Joe up to it?  I hope so.

To me, as it was with JP, this marks the definitive end of Joe's childhood.  He's on his own for three weeks.  It's never happened like that before.  Today,  I left Joe in a cauldron of competitive, high achieving, athletic boys.  What will he be like when we pick him up in three weeks?  Tougher?  More independent?  More confident in himself?  More self-reliant?  All of those things, I hope.

It all goes by so fast.  Every time I walk by a father holding his infant son, or pushing him in a stroller, I want to grab him by the shoulders, look him in the eye, and tell him how fast it all goes by.  To enjoy every single minute.  Every single second, actually.  

My boys are not really boys any longer.  It happened so damn fast.